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2015.

becoming

if 2013 was a year of wildness (starting new jobs, buying a house, moving), and 2014 was a year of settledness (building stability in our work and home lives), then 2015 was most definitely a year of becoming.

2015 was a year of growth. growing into some beautiful new friendships and out of some others. the year where I finally embraced the value of quality over quantity in relationships, and the year where I experienced the freedom, but also heartbreak, that reality can sometimes bring. it was a year that required me to be a real grown-up in new ways – really hard ways – but ways that taught me a lot about myself.

2015 was the year of the marathon. in a time where running a marathon has seemingly become the new 5k, it’s sometimes hard to talk about running our first marathon as if it’s any kind of big deal. but the truth is, it’s a huge deal. more than anything else in 2015, training for and running my first marathon defined this year of my life. the marathon experience challenged me in every way – physically, mentally – and in the process, helped me fall in love with running all over again, and reaffirm my affinity for distance running. it’s an accomplishment I’m so proud of, and will remember always…and I can’t wait to do it all over again.

2015 was the year of the second car. (okay, in reality, it was only a few days of 2015…). if you’ve known us for a long time, then you probably know that with the exception of my senior year in college when we lived apart, kevin and i have shared a single car for the entirety of our relationship. what started as two broke grad students not being able to afford a second car eventually turned into just normal life, and save for a few #transitproblems here and there, we’ve learned to make it work, and figured we’d tackle the second car situation if/when it ever became a real issue. my time riding the bus (and occasionally bumming rides from friends) was incredibly humbling, and i’m thankful to have had that experience. due to a weird series of events over the past few months, coupled with the generosity of my parents, my family’s honda civic is now here in nebraska to stay. having a car (especially here in omaha) is such a ubiquitous thing, that it can be easy to take for granted, but the value of having another car isn’t lost on us one bit, and we’re grateful beyond words.

2015 was the year of the bar. last spring Kevin and I started meeting up at scriptown, a new brewery in the blackstone district. it was a short walk from my bus stop and the perfect place to grab a drink before heading home together. and somewhere in between the after-work beers and the weekend growler fills and bringing all of our friends in to try it out, too, it soon became our favorite place – our second home, a place where (nearly) everyone knows our name. this year, scriptown has been a place for us to celebrate good days and birthdays and anniversaries, and a place to wind down on the not-so-good days, too. we’ve always wanted a place like this – a place where we can be regulars at, and have real relationships with the bartenders and owners, and I’m happy to report we’ve definitely found it.

2015 was the year of the royals. alright, this one was probably more exciting and year-defining for Kevin than it was for me, but I have to admit, I had my fair share of fun cheering on this team to their first World Series since 1985. in 2015, I watched and listened to more baseball than I ever have in my entire life, and – yes, it shocks me, too – I didn’t even hate it. okay, so maybe having a giant crush on Eric Hosmer made the experience slightly more enjoyable :)

2015, like every year, was full of moments that I don’t want to forget. new half marathon, 10k, and 5k PRs for both Kevin and myself. seeing our amazing niece turn two. trips to California, Arizona, and Chicago, and the opportunity to visit with so many old friends. the four months we got to spend with my sister, while she lived with us here in Omaha this semester. and all the other everyday moments in between that make our life what it is right now – messy, beautiful, real. this year and every year, we have so much to be thankful for.

so cheers to a new year, to 2016 — I can’t wait to see what kind of year you’ll be.

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one little word: simple.

onelittleword

i’ve followed others’ one little word journeys in the past, but haven’t ever given it much thought myself. after seeing this post last week, however, i was inspired to finally give it a try for myself this time around, ya know, in the name of new year’s goals.

i have read a few stories about how people go about choosing their words each year, and many folks write about how their words just seem to find them. a little cheesy, it sounds, as i write that, but i guess i’m about to join the club, because i felt much the same way. the older i get (yes, i realize 27 is not that old), and more intensely in this past year, i’ve felt an urgency to simplify. as i’ve said, 2014 was a really, really awesome year, but i’m determined to make 2015 just as good, and part of that is getting rid of all the mental and physical clutter in my life.

here are a few ways i’m thinking about simple for 2015:

i want the way we cook and eat to be simple. i love scouring pinterest for recipes and buying pretty new cookbooks and reading back issues of bon appetit so much that sometimes it keeps me from the actual cooking part. i can get so caught up in the logistics and production of cooking sometimes that it ends up being the exact opposite of the stress-relieving activity that i had wanted it to be in the first place. i often forget that some of my favorite meals – shakshuka, a simple pasta with veggies, a roasted pork tenderloin – are actually some of the easiest (and affordable) things to make. i want to stop worrying about getting a perfect meal on the table every night and instead just get a meal on the table every night. (and the nights when we don’t, i want to stop feeling guilty and just enjoy the occasional take-out splurge). i want to be better about keeping our dinner diary, for sentimental value and also for a place to turn when i need a dinner idea. i want to start sharing what we ate each week and what we’re planning for the week ahead, in a very simple format similar to this, for personal accountability and to maybe even inspire others to cook simple meals at home, too. and i especially want to continue our (sometimes) habit of sunday afternoons spent making meals ahead of time for the week, and making something a little bit special for sunday night dinner (#sundaysuppers), and enjoying a glass of wine together while we give thanks for the weekend, clear our minds, and gear up for a new week.

i want the way we keep our home to be simple. i want to get rid of or donate all the things we don’t need, and save up for high-quality versions of the things we do. in december, we began The Great Organization Rampage and made a list of the all the things that need to get done to make our house feel clean and organized – half-completed projects that need to get done, junk drawers that need to get cleaned out, old furniture that we need to schedule a goodwill pickup for. we’re working on crossing things off that list one by one, and it. feels. good. less physical clutter = less mental clutter, so this one is a double win. i want to be super intentional about any new things we bring into our home, and focus on long-term functionality rather than short-term gratification (this one is mega hard for me).

i want the way i buy new clothes and get dressed to be simple. last year, i wrote about how i’m trying to add pieces to my closet that are high-quality and versatile. i’ve done a pretty good job of that this year, adding a couple of great staples like this bag and this coat that i plan to make last for years to come. even though the few things i have bought have been pricier, i’ve found that the more i commit to only buying great, high-quality basics, the less i buy, because so few things fit the bill. (and also because, these days, i want to spend all my clothing money on workout gear). this year, i want to pare down my closet even more and get serious about only keeping around the things i’m realistically going to wear (and maybe even jumping on the capsule wardrobe train). i’m working towards loving absolutely everything in my closet and 2015 is gonna be the year.

and lastly, i want to write more. i want to write more on this blog – not worrying about whether it’s an original recipe or having perfectly-lit photographs or if anyone will even read it – but just write, about anything and everything, because having a creative outlet makes me happy. i want to write more in my own personal journal; it’s something i’ve always valued but have gotten away from lately. and i want to write more letters to kevin. my parents gifted us a beautiful leather journal for our third anniversary to write to each other in, and i want to start doing that. writing of all forms has always been a great way for me to clear my head, and so in the spirit of getting rid of mental clutter, i want it to be a big part of living simple in 2015.

cheers to 2015 and a year of (mostly) simple meals around the table and enjoying time with my best friend in our (usually, hopefully) clean and organized house. hoping to snag this book from the library soon for even more inspiration on simple living and prioritizing.

what’s your one little word for this year?

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happy new year!

IMG_04432014 was a really, really awesome year. 

it was the year of four half-marathons and new personal bests for both of us. it was the year we finally went on a proper honeymoon and took a few days off to explore san francisco. it was the year our niece turned one, and the year when she learned how to say “auntie holl” and “happy birthday uncle” and our hearts melted every single time. it was the year i turned 27, my favorite age so far. the year of our first backyard garden, our first backyard barbecue, our first lazy summer under the string lights and by the firepit. it was the inaugural year of my work’s participation in a sand volleyball league (although we excelled more in the drinking aspect), a true highlight of the summer and something we plan to keep going. it was the first year in a long time where we weren’t moving or even thinking about moving, and the year we worked towards making our house a home. it was the year of many failed home improvement projects, but a few successful ones too. 2014 was the year we learned how to do grown-up things like replace outlets and snake drains (ok, still working on that one). it was the year i got to see my baby sister graduate from high school, and the year that she moved 45 minutes away from us, and the year when i got to be there for her during the ups and downs of her first semester. it was the year i got to visit two new states, north carolina and louisiana, and eat lots of great food in both places. 2014 was the year when my bff ruth and her husband david welcomed their baby boy, noah augustus, into the world, and i got to be a proud auntie all over again. it was the year when kevin turned 30 and we took an epic five-day trip to chicago to celebrate. it was the year of our very first real christmas tree, and a quiet christmas spent together just the two of us. it was a really, really awesome year, and i’m so grateful to the family and friends and jobs and the God that made that happen.

hope your 2014 was wonderful and your 2015 is even better.

happy new year, friends!

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2014: a few resolutions.

 

this is normally the time where we’d post our annual resolutions video (see 2012 and 2013), but the truth is we just didn’t get around to it this year (and one of my resolutions is let go of things that don’t get done, move on, and do other things). however, in lieu of a video, i’d still like to share a few things that have been on my mind for the new year.

1. get back to whole foods. 

a couple years ago we adopted a completely plant-based diet and were pretty strict about it for quite awhile. at the risk of sounding totally cheesy and cliche, during that time, I remember feeling the best that i’ve felt. over time, we’ve let those habits slip, and in these past few months in particular i’ve found myself eating dairy, meat, white flour, etc. more often than I know is good for my body. I’ve been bookmarking a lot of recipes that are vegetable-forward with whole grains, beans, and minimal dairy, as well as lots of healthy seafood dishes (we have a newfound love for mussels!), and I’m really excited to work back into this type of diet in the new year and beyond.

2. make our house a home. 

I feel like we waited forever to be settled down in one city and one home, and I’m so happy that 2013 finally brought that for us. But as exciting and fulfilling as whole having a house situation has been, the reality is that the 2013 was mostly work and not a lot of play (aka mostly unpacking and not a lot of decorating). I’m looking forward to feeling all the way moved (just a few more boxes to go through) and finally getting started on all the little home improvement and decor projects that I’ve been dreaming of, so that our house can really start to feel like our own.

 3. take more photos. 

although I take a lot of iPhone pictures and post them to Instagram fairly often, I want to be better about taking our big camera along, as well as capturing everyday moments at home. I’m sometimes guilty of not bringing it or pulling it out unless I have a specific end goals for the photos, i.e. a recipe blog post, etc. A second part of this goal is to actually do something with the photos that I take. My sister-in-law got me some Project Life stuff for Christmas; if you’re not familiar, it’s a product line that’s a hybrid of scrapbooking and traditional photo albums. I’m excited to get started because it seems like a really realistic approach. I also want to be better about framing some of my favorite photos as art around our house as we decorate more.

 4. go outside. 

as much as I wish I was a gym person, I’m just…not. And while I do enjoy yoga/pilates, I don’t like it enough to make it part of my everyday routine. If I’m anything, I’m a runner. An outside runner. And as much as this sucks during Midwest winters, unless it’s blizzarding or under 10 degrees, I just need to get over it and get outside. I have to keep reminding myself that getting ready and physically stepping outside is the hardest part, and that it’s easy from there. Besides, if I don’t go outside for runs, then there’s no way to justify fancy new running clothes from our new Nike outlet and Lululemon. Which are obviously necessary for said runs.

 5. let go. 

I’ve always been a person who starts a lot of things and only finishes a few. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to realize that sometimes quitting doesn’t have to mean just quitting, and that instead it’s my subconscious way of prioritizing. I want to keep learning to set realistic goals for the things that are really important, while letting go of things that aren’t as important and/or maybe aren’t as attainable. For instance, as nice as it sounds to cook at home 7 nights a week, that’s just not gonna happen. Instead, maybe I can shoot for 4 and really plan ahead and work hard to make those meals a success.

what are some of your goals for the new year? cheer to 2014! 

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current reads.

one of our resolutions this year was to choose a book each month to read aloud together. we got a little bit of a late start this month, but decided on strength in what remains by tracy kidder, and it’s wonderful so far. we’re also both reading our own books right now, too. kevin’s always been good about finishing books that he starts, but i’m often guilty of buying/checking out lots of books at once and never really committing to finishing them, which is something i’m trying to focus on in this new year. right now i’m reading the food of a younger land, which is turning out to be a fascinating collection of short stories and memories and recipes so far.

are you all reading anything good right now?

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